KAB JEENA SEEKHEGA INSAAN??

Dil me khauf liye zinda hai har insaan, kab jeena sikhega insaan?

Dil me jal rhi law ko kab pehchaanega insaan?
Khawabo ke andhero me doobti apni parchhaii ko, kab pehchaanega insaan.?
Kab jeena seekhega insaan?

Safalta ki aarzoo me, peeche chhoote sapno ko, kab pura karega insaan?
Jugnu ki roshni ki tarah, apni zindagi ki jagmagaahat ko, kaise barkarar rakhega insaan?
Kab jeena seekhega insaan?

Zindagi ke har rang se, kab khelega insaan?
Taash ke patton ki tarah bikharti zindagi ko, kab sambhaalega insaan?
Kab jeena seekhega insaan?

Doston ki atkheliyon se, kab khush hoga insaan?
Kisiki muskuraahat dekh, apni zindagi se pyar krna, kab seekhega insaan?
Kab jeena seekhega insaan?

Kab jeena seekhega insaan?

P.S: After a very long time..I penned down my feelings into a poem with the help of my bestie. Truly hope you will like it. 

Your feedback is my ingredient. Do comment. :)

The Agony

My Dear Best Friend,

Relationship persists of promises made long ago, in the sacred spaces of our heart. We both unknowingly but li’l bit willingly let our hearts blend into the craziness of FRIENDSHIP. We made our treasured memories, all the good times, every single time we made each other laugh, cried with each other, every time we called each other “BEST FRIEND”. We did everything together best friends do. 

Everything seemed perfect, I reckoned you. It feels good when your friend loves you, the way he says your nickname. We started as a really cool bicycle, were happy and contented until all of a sudden you found a glittery wheel. I tried riding that tricycle for you and was happy for you. But now, I kinda feel left out.

It kills me deep inside how we are drifting apart. Every single day, our relation is deteriorating. I’m not blaming your glittery wheel for all this but whenever I plan to go out with you all, I do it dreaming to spend time with you, my best friend. Unfortunately, the scenario is always different. And I hate it. I hate when you sideline me, you behave as if I don’t exist at that moment. It feels as if you don’t want me anymore in your life. There is no difference for me in watching a movie with all my 'committed' friends and watching a movie alone.

I know you are happy. And I don’t blame the glittery wheel for any of this. I know you might still be preparing for forever. But, can we spend some time, just us, before ‘forever’ begins and I’m eradicated from your life permanently?

What’s worst of all is now I know it will someday happen to me. It makes me sad. Because if you ever understood me, you’ll know that I’m nothing but insanely loyal to our friendship. I don’t wanna loose my friends, not you.

All this stuff that has aroused between us kinda discourages more. I used to know what’s going in your life, what made you laugh, what’s making you sad. Now, you are becoming a blank sheet of paper, a stranger. I’m afraid I don’t know you anymore.

J.K.Rowling said, “indifferent and neglect often do more damage than outright dislike.”I want you to understand this and say it, end it for forever if you like. I don’t wanna get hurt more, I’m tired. I don’t want to hurt you, it’s just that in-person these feelings cannot be expressed by me, and you know it.

The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained. I read it somewhere and deliberately wish the goodbye never happens.

P.S: Hope you have an encounter with my blog someday. Because you ever opened it, I know. I never want to hurt you. But a small part of me really wants u to regret what u r unintentionally, unknowingly doing to me. Take Care.

The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world

Blessings on the hand of women!

Angels guard its strength and grace,

In the palace, cottage, hovel,

Oh, no matter where the place;

Would that never storms assailed it,

Rainbows ever gently curled;

For the hand that rocks the cradle

Is the hand that rules the world.

                                                                        - William Rose Wallace

What an important and awesome job a mother has! Motherhood is just about the greatest calling in the world. The thing that makes a mother so wonderful is her sacrificing spirit. The will to sacrifice for her part of the soul, her time, strength, career and even her own health for the sake of her child.

 A roman Catholic once said,’ give us the children until they are seven years old and you can keep them the rest of their lives.’ He meant, of course, that the first years of a child are the most important, impressionable and once in a lifetime. The teaching, love, mannerism, etiquettes, understanding and care a child receives as a clad will never be forgotten. A child is like graphite in his/her initial years of growth, a mother does not only take care of her baby she governs the destiny of her race.

It is her hand that rocks the cradle and it is her hand that indirectly rules the world. The future of any nation, the future of the generations to come depends on the upbringing given to a child by the mother of the rising generation.

We all should remember that the greatest leaders, conquerors, politicians and many more of the world had been helpless and dependent babies once. Had it not been for the fond care of their mothers, they would never have grown up to mark their great presence on earth.

P.S: an act of praise for my mother who is preeminent force for change and love in my world.
On her birthday: 14^th February, 2013. Love u Mumma J

WHEN "NOTHING" IS EVERYTHING!!

Sitting there, on a golden cozy couch…smiling. When asked why you are smiling, answer is….NOTHING!

Time never waits, never stops for anyone. Heard this from old ‘n’ gold one’s of family. Days pass, years change. We change. Move away from close ones, life changes. Friends change, people change but heart…it’s the same. It’s the same old fumbler, having those treasured moments engraved in it, you want it or not.

You remember those days, think how idiotic you were, feeling King’s or Queen’s with your gang, your friends of life. You smile and when somebody asks the reason, you say….Nothing!

SUCCESSFUL IS HE WHO BUILDS THE BLOCKS WITH THE STONES THROWN AT HIM

Librans are said to be born criticizers. So, just to change my pace I thought being a motivator this time. :-p

Man is a regular learner. We learn so many things at every step in life. There are two aspects of any situation. Either we succeed or we have to face the failure. But if we learn from our failure we can certainly build the success.

People always tend to find faults in everything. This has been done with every successful person. Majority of the people criticize the policies of great leaders but the strong personalities would not listen to them and tend to move forward. When Gandhiji started non-violence movement to free India from the clutches of Britisher, there were hardly any takers. But he moved forward and made a dent in the thinking of majority of the Indians and it was his non-violence that compelled the Britisher to move out of India.

As it goes “share we should the merits, and shun our sins”, we can always take out something positive out of every negative thought. It is always the positive attitude that helps us to face the awkward situations and come out with flowering colors.

Scientists face adverse circumstances and criticism when they do research work but ultimately when they discover or invent something for the betterment of humanity, everyone praises their efforts. It is always someone’s criticism or negative remarks make the way for the positive inspiration. One of the best examples of this is the ex-Indian cricket captain, Saurav Ganguly, also made a descent comeback once in matches amidst all the criticism from all sections of society but ultimately he has done it and shown to the people what determination can do.

So irrespective of the failure, negative or advance situations, one can make the way to the success with his positive attitude and determination.

P.S : It’s something I wrote during my school days. Just wanted to share!! 

    NEW TREND IN ‘FB’ TOWN

‘I don't regret my past..I jz regret d tym wasted wid wrong person….neva gonna delete u or block u. I am keeping u there so u’ll be able to see how happy I am without u…nd don't make so many promises wen u can’t even keep one.’

Someday, somewhere, someone told me, ‘a whiff of coffee can really wake you up!’ But that day aforesaid wall post really woke me and thanks to that post, I got my first blog.

 

I always quote, ‘a human mind can never understand a human heart’ and it’s so proved now. What your heart says your mind will always contradict and yea…vice-versa. There was a time when vengeance, anger after a break-up meant no strings attached i.e. no call, no message and even no common friends. It’s not a scuttlebutt, saw my friends actually do that. And yes….the best witted-revenge was to delete and block the “ex” from FB account. As if the ‘ex’ is really concerned about them. But now, an all new vengeance trick has taken its place.

So, ladies and gentlemen, here I now introduce you to the all new trend gaining its power like a fire in jungle:

                              “LEAVE BUT NEVER DELETE”

Punjabi me bolein to…

                       ‘tennu chhadna ae par teri jaan ni chhadni’

With the new season of break-ups and link-ups in town and having maximum of friends committed, I am really, by god ki kasam getting those over-emotional, extremely regretting and depressed status updates on my wall. One thing I’m truly, full-heartedly trying to understand is that why the hell anyone and everyone wants to be committed now and then.

Theek hai…ho gye committed…then live your life with your bf-gf naa…why you no stop bothering others with your lovey-dovey relationship. After all this lovey-dovey moments the MOMENT OF TRUTH arises. And the old filmy dialogue goes…It’s over! You understand that..it’s over!

Now, dear readers, now…this is the phase You and I are indirectly, unwillingly dragged in this crap of cry. Status updates, photo uploads, linking and commenting becomes common (sometimes our timeline becomes the land of war for these cry babies). They update status (directly or indirectly targeting their past) uploads photos (never forgetting to tag their ‘ex’ in each one of it) and cover photos, a new weapon for this cold war.

These heartbroken, revengeful beings will go to any extent to make sure they are showcasing ‘a perfect, happy life phase’ to their ‘ex’. OH GOD !!

Alas, this irritating, irrationally pathetic behavior of my friends (whom I really love, sachhi...!) left me no choice but to give a reality check to these cry-babies.

HARD-TRUTH FOR DUDES & DUDETTES OF FB TOWN

Well, maybe I'm being sarcastic but darling if you had a break-up, you sat he/she is outta your life. Then, why the hell are you still talking and commenting about them on FB.

‘I’m gonna keep you in my friends list so that you can see how happy I am without you’, you quote. Honeybunch, get your facts straight and clear, no one in this goddamn virtual world is concerned about what you doing, what you eat, whom you are with. Your ‘ex’, especially.

You say you don't want ‘ex’ then why on this earth you are so concerned about what your ‘ex’ comprehends about ‘you’. Perhaps ‘ex’ found a new love and don't give a damn about your life, your love and yes….YOU!! L

Sugarplum, spending your leisure time strategizing how to articulate your ‘ex’, if that‘s your fav-game, you are truly preoccupied with past. Get over it ! spend  time with your friends, family, indulge yourself with some habit of yours, and if nothing from aforesaid suits you…then, darling…hold your horses…find your NEW LOVE. But don’t have a chip on your shoulder (don't be upset for something that happened in past).

                                       MOVE ON…!!! J